tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-985378479844764321.post3151884651899489810..comments2012-10-05T10:45:56.189-04:00Comments on Front Desk Ninja: Bug, Part One and a lot of other ramblesFront Desk Ninjahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07585215001565044222noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-985378479844764321.post-31868670354718317812012-02-01T10:16:29.395-05:002012-02-01T10:16:29.395-05:00:( Life sucks sometimes and people speak without ...:( Life sucks sometimes and people speak without thinking. I know I've carried around massive secrets just because I didn't want to hear what everyone would say. I'm excited for you about the tattoo! Please post pictures. :)L-Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13107278642765424614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-985378479844764321.post-50137849616276731742012-02-01T09:23:09.422-05:002012-02-01T09:23:09.422-05:00I've had so many people say stupid shit to me....I've had so many people say stupid shit to me. I can't tell you how many times I heard "it wasn't meant to be" or "there must have been something wrong with him". To which I always respond "well, his genetic tests and autopsy were completely normal, so actually I lost a perfectly healthy baby for no reason". Jeez people. Just say you are fucking sorry. With your best friend especially, I think you need to say something. She has to know she crossed a line, and being your best friend, I'm assuming she knows about your losses. I think you are afraid to show vulnerability sometimes but if ever there was a time to say "that really hurt me" it is NOW. You come off with this air of invicibility and you have to be willing to let that go around the people you trust the most. I'm sure she knows she shouldn't have said it, but she also knows that you are the type of person to tell her if something pisses you off. Maybe she doesn't realize you are not the type of person to tell her if something makes you so sad you want to curl into a ball and cry for a day. My point is that she is your best friend for a reason. She cares about you, but also she trusts you and knows she can vent to you. Sometimes we are so wrapped up in our own stuff that we don't think before we vent. <br /><br />I think the tattoo is making you feel better because it's a way to put your feelings into something that you can see and touch. It's a tribute to your babies. And right now you need to channel your shit somewhere. So tattoo away. It's what Mexican prison gangs would want.Jaclynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02094950174828724338noreply@blogger.com